Empathetic, individual, unique

My name is Jessika Hulbert. 

I am an independent Funeral Celebrant based on the Kent and Sussex border near Tunbridge Wells. It is a privilege to work with the bereaved and I am passionate about what I do. I am mother of four (two at home) and wife to Peter (an architect). 

Empathetic, individual & unique

My name is Jessika Hulbert. I am an independent Funeral Celebrant based on the Kent and Sussex border near Tunbridge Wells.

What I Do

As a Funeral Celebrant, I create a service to include whatever elements are important to the family and friends concerned. I carefully listen to what is required from a service, and through detailed discussion learn about the deceased. An order of service is then created, which may include readings, poems, music, memories and prayers and only when all concerned are happy, will the final draft be agreed.

All elements of the funeral service are organised with sensitivity and the utmost attention to detail. I collaborate closely with family and friends of the deceased and funeral directors to ensure that a unique and beautiful final tribute can be created, which conveys the essence of the life that was lived. 

Fees - £230-250 + travel expenses 

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From our very first meeting, Jessika was warm and friendly and respectfully asked relevant questions so that she could fully understand our family, our dad, and what we wanted for his funeral.

Jessika offered us some lovely ideas and gently guided us in putting together a funeral service that fully reflected dad and his qualities. Her ideas such as asking the grandchildren to supply some of their childhood memories and incorporating that within the service particularly resonated with those who had joined us to celebrate dads life with us.

On the day itself, Jessika was friendly, calm and professional, delivering a poignant and touching service. At the funeral reception one lady told her husband that if she should pass soon, she would like Jessika to preside over her service and many others immediately agreed. Other people commented that “it was the nicest funeral (they) had ever attended”.
We were truly blessed to have Jessika with us on our journey.

With thanks from the family.

Hi Jess, Thank you so much for such a warm and emotional tribute to Dad yesterday.

Your guidance and time spent listening to us gave us a service that exceeded all expectations. So many people asked afterwards how you knew Vic, testament indeed to job exceedingly well done.

It was a pleasure to have crossed paths with you, I wish you well on behalf of all of the family.


How do you plan a funeral when you’re so consumed with grief that nothing stays in your brain? 

Jess was an absolute rock , she guided my mum, sister and myself through the  entire process. Jess got to know dad through our conversations, she was kind, supportive, creative and thoughtful at all times both in person and over the phone or email.

The day came and we had the best funeral for dad, he would have ( hopefully did) love it. It may not have been the most conventional send off but then we’re not the most conventional family. 

 Jess took our thoughts and turned something so difficult to deal with into the most wonderfully memorable day. Nothing was rushed or overlooked, everyone mattered. 

Our friends and relatives all commented  on how brilliant Jess had been and how much they’d enjoyed the ceremony, my aunt has even changed her own funeral plans as she was so impressed with the day. 

Thanks Jess, this wouldn’t have happened without you, your ideas and your brilliant way with words and people. You gave dad the farewell he deserved. 

Get In Touch

Please call me on 07899 917442 or tap the button below to send a message.

You can also find me on Facebook.

Areas covered:

Kent, Sussex, Surrey, London

- further afield if required

Blog Posts

A Tribute to Ruth

30th June 2021I had the honour of officiating at the service of the late Ruth Lauretta Badger last week. It was a beautiful service, full of laughter and tears, song and poetry – she loved literature, music, politics and was fiercely protective of her family. She lived life completely, wholly and passionately. Her humour was

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A Tribute to Ruth

Close To Tears

I take a deep breath and lead you in, Carried by strong arms, the pain dented on their shoulders relieving pain.You are placed reverently onto the stand that will take you to your final release,But not until I have stood in front of all your people Those you have loved and borne and wept and

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Close To Tears

A Ceremony to Remember

I had the honour of conducting a service for a gentleman who had been a very big part of many people’s lives. He was the owner and head chef of a Thai restaurant. His family wanted a ceremony that would include his Buddhist belief system and be accessible to the rest of his family, including

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A Ceremony to Remember

Say it with Hops

Say it with Flowers is perhaps an overused phrase nowadays; in the funeral world flowers really do speak words. I read (in Creative Review) that the Say it with Flowers slogan was created in the US back in 1917 by the Florists’ Telegraph Delivery Association (FTD). “As the FTD went global (the UK equivalent, Interflora,

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Say it with Hops

Reflections of a Celebrant

As we approach a new school year, I thought it was time to look back over the last. I started work as a Celebrant over a year ago and I’m relieved to note that I no longer have that first funeral feeling – like a new pupil turning up wearing the wrong uniform, wondering if

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Reflections of a Celebrant

The Final Journey

I took two funerals in June, where the deceased’s final journey was by horse-drawn hearse. The horses were so calm, controlled and seemingly ‘bomb-proof’ with their elegant ostrich plumes. The hearse itself was so finely polished and beautifully maintained. It is a stately way to arrive at one’s final destination. This is a brief post

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The Final Journey


Jessika Hulbert

Funeral Celebrant

Leyswood Farm Groombridge, TN3 9PH